Step by Step Daily Hair Care Routine for Dry Frizzy Hair

Ever feel like your hair just isn’t cooperating, frizzy one day, dry the next? Trust me, I’ve been there. Especially since I live in a very humid area, frizzy hair is my best friend. These are my perfected dry frizzy hair care routine.

Finding the right daily hair care routine made all the difference, especially on wash days when my hair needs extra TLC.

If you want to keep your locks healthy, hydrated, and frizz-free, these are the things I do to keep my hair healthy and hydrated all the long! I’ve got you covered with these easy steps!

How to Care for Dry Frizzy Hair

On wash days, protect your hair with a pre-wash oil treatment, cleanse gently with a sulfate-free shampoo, and restore moisture with a deep conditioner. Lock in hydration with a leave-in conditioner or hair oil, and always use a heat protectant if styling.

For non-wash days, keep hair refreshed with a light mist or lightweight oil, and prevent frizz and breakage by using a silk pillowcase or protective hairstyle while sleeping. These simple steps help maintain smooth, healthy hair every day!

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My Dry Frizzy Hair care Routine: Wash Days & Non-Wash Days

Hair Wash Day Routine

Morning Routine

Pre-Wash Treatment (Optional, But Worth It!)

I used to think pre-wash oiling was an unnecessary extra step—until I tried it.

Since I have low-porosity hair, I researched the best oils and found that coconut oil is highly recommended.

A study found that coconut-based hair oils can prevent increases in hair porosity, thereby protecting hair from over stripping the natural oils on your hair.

I plan my wash days on mornings when I don’t need to go out, so I can let the oils sit on my hair for 3-4 hours.

This routine has helped protect my hair from dryness, making it softer and more manageable. If you have the time, I highly recommend giving it a try!

My recommended product: OGX Extra Strength Damage Remedy + Coconut Miracle Oil Penetrating Hair Oil Treatment

I love that this oil is super affordable. The bottle might seems small to you but trust me, you don’t need to use much to get an amazing results!!

Gentle Shampoo

Switching to a sulfate-free shampoo was a big turning point in my hair care journey.

I used to think my hair had to feel squeaky clean after a wash, but that just meant I was stripping away all the moisture. Now, I use a hydrating, sulfate-free shampoo that cleans without making my hair feel like straw.

The result? Less frizz, more shine, and happy, healthy strands.

My favorite shampoo is the KUNDAL Cherry Blossom Natural Shampoo.

It’s the best-smelling shampoo I’ve ever used, it smells like perfume!

I love the rich lather it creates, and its ingredient list is packed with natural oils that help make my hair shinier and softer. It also cleans my scalp thoroughly without leaving my strands feeling stripped.

It’s on the pricier side, but one bottle lasts me for 5 months! (I wash my hair twice a week)

Deep Conditioning for Extra Nourishment

I always make sure to use a conditioner or hair mask after shampooing. It is an essential step, especially if you have very dry and frizzy hair.

Skipping it can leave your hair feeling rough, brittle, and difficult to manage.

Many people rush through conditioning, but I have learned that taking my time makes a huge difference. Instead of rinsing it out right away,

I leave my conditioner on for at least 15 minutes. This allows my hair to fully absorb the moisture and nutrients, giving it the hydration it needs.

That extra time not only makes my hair feel softer and smoother but also makes detangling much easier. If you struggle with dryness and frizz, try leaving your conditioner in a little longer. You might be surprised by how much healthier and more manageable your hair feels.

Some of my favorite hair masks & conditioners:

1. Kundal Honey & Macadamia Natural Conditioner – Smells amazing and makes my hair silky smooth
2. OGX Extra Strength Damage Remedy + Coconut Miracle Oil Conditioner for Dry, Frizzy or Coarse Hair – It’s a thick and hydrating conditioner I use when my hair feels extra dry. It also smells amazing!!!
3. OUAI Thick Hair Conditioner – Moisturizing Conditioner for Dry, Frizzy Hair – Leave my hair smelling amazing even after two days and keep my hair freeze free!!

Leave-In Conditioner or Serum

This is my secret weapon against frizz. It keeps my strands hydrated throughout the day without making them feel greasy or weighed down, and honestly, I can’t imagine skipping this step anymore.

I like to alternate between using hair oils and leave-in conditioner after washing my hair, depending on what my hair needs that day.

I apply it in two steps.

First, I apply it when my hair is about 50 percent dry. This helps to lock in the moisture from my conditioner, preventing dryness and keeping my hair soft.

Then, I apply a little more just before styling to add extra hydration and ensure a smoother, frizz-free finish.

This routine has made a huge difference in how my hair looks and feels. If you struggle with dryness or frizz, incorporating a leave-in conditioner into your routine could be a game-changer.

My favorite leave-ins and hair oils:

1. Moroccanoil Treatment
2. Mise En Scene PerfectSerum Original

Hair Styling

It really depends on my mood that day. Most of the time, I prefer to let my hair air dry and just go about my day. It is the easiest, most low-maintenance option and helps prevent unnecessary heat damage.

But when I want my hair to look more polished, I reach for my blow dryer or straightener.

Heat styling gives my hair a sleek, put-together finish, whether I am going for a smooth, straight look or adding some volume and shape.

No matter what, I never skip a heat protectant.

Using heat without protection can lead to dryness, breakage, and long-term damage, so I always make sure to apply it before styling. It creates a barrier that helps prevent moisture loss while keeping my hair looking healthy and shiny. If you use heat on your hair, a good heat protectant is an absolute must!

Evening Routine

Moisturizing Touch-Up

If my ends are feeling dry by nighttime, a tiny drop of lightweight oil does the trick. I used to wake up with straw-like ends, but now my hair stays soft and hydrated overnight.

Protective Hairstyle

Throwing my hair into a messy bun at night seemed like a good idea until I woke up with a tangled mess. No matter how careful I was, my hair always ended up dry, frizzy, and difficult to manage in the morning.

Now, I swear by a hair bonnet every single night. It has become my holy grail, and honestly, I am still trying to figure out the science behind it. But for some reason, whenever I sleep with a hair bonnet, my hair feels unbelievably silky, smooth, and shiny the next morning.

I have noticed that it helps reduce friction, prevents breakage, and keeps my hair from drying out overnight. 

Non-Hair Wash Day Hair Care Routine

The secret no one really talks about when it comes to taming frizzy hair is finding the right hair oil that works for you. Not all oils are the same, and what works for one person might not work for another.

Living in a humid environment, I have learned that the key to keeping frizz at bay is applying hair oil whenever I need it, not just in the morning or at night.

If I notice my hair starting to frizz during the day, I will smooth on a small amount of oil to keep it under control.

Now, this can be tricky, especially if you have fine hair. Applying too much oil can easily weigh it down, so it is important to experiment and find the right formula for your hair type.

My hair is very coarse, so I can get away with using heavier oils. But if you have fine, frizzy hair, I have heard great things about Olaplex oil as a lightweight option.

On non-wash days, protecting your hair overnight is just as important.

My go-to is a hair bonnet, but there are plenty of other protective hairstyles that can help reduce friction and prevent frizz. Finding what works best for your hair can make all the difference in keeping it smooth and manageable.

Final Thoughts

Taking care of your hair doesn’t have to be complicated. Small changes—\, like using a gentle shampoo, adding a leave-in conditioner, or switching to a silk pillowcase- can lead to big improvements. Whether it’s a wash day or a non-wash day, these simple steps keep my hair looking and feeling its best.

Try them out and see what works for you!